What’s up nerds? Have you guys had an awesome summer so far? Hopefully filled with bikinis, tank tops, thongs, miniskirts and open toed shoes with fresh mani-pedis … on you of course. You faggots must remain faggy all year long! Remember that!
I was on NF off and on for most of the summer. I was having such a great time spending time with family and seeing friends and jsut having me time and taking in the sun that I worked pretty much part time. I missed a few calls here and there cuz my damn phone turned into shite for a bit, without my knowledge, and if it was you and I haven’t addressed it … sorry boo! Try me now! Things are winding down for everyone, and people are getting back to work and school and I’m no different 🙂 Which is why I’m back in action making a new blog post! Many of you have been very anxious for this.
So let’s see, there is so much I could cover this journal entry that I don’t really know where to start! But one thing I have been thinking about lately is the newfound popularity of the word Cuck. Yesterday a friend of mine linked me to one of his youtube videos in which he goes off on a rant about the gaming community and their use of the word “cuck” as an insult or to show displeasure for something, without even knowing what it means. “Such as this video game has a bug. The devs are cucks cuz Sweden is cucked”. To find out the true meaning, he thought it was best to head over to urban dictionary to which the definition he read was this:
A man who is desperate for acceptance, approval, and affection from women. This desperation has led to the compromise of his beliefs and values, the desecration of his dignity and self-worth, and his inability to stand up for himself and what he deserves as a human being, eg. loyalty, fidelity, and honesty in a romantic relationship.
It made me take a moment and consider what I think of this phenomenon.
Firstly, when I think of Cucks, I think of the majority of you. You are men, who are not men. You know that you are failures in life in that your dicks are small, you have wimpy personalities, you feel feminine, you dress in women’s clothing and above all, because of all of these things, you are aware you can never please a woman the way she deserves. You leave that job to a real man, and you worship them together, doing something you are not capable of and all of this meshed together is sexually arousing for you. Or simply a man who just gets off to sharing his wife or girlfriends with others, and that doesn’t necessarily make him desperate or feel any loss of dignity. It’s simply sexy for him.
So to me, The urban dictionary definition is more of a “Wimp”. Cucks are differen’t because while they are WIMPY, they have no dignity or self-worth or values to begin with lol. You know you are pieces of shit and you take pride in that. A wimp is aware he is a piece of shit and it embarrasses him, he wishes he could be like other guys, but he doesn’t have it in him. Being bullied by men and women and not being able to do anything about it is what is sexually arousing to him.
Therefore, imo, these vanillas, ignorants, teens and whoever else that are adopting this word and throwing it around really have no idea what they are talking about. They are mixing it up, adding their own perceived definition and throwing it back out into the universe until its become a blur. It’s a robotic insult much like “retard” or “Fag” used to be.
As a woman who works in the fetish industry and deals with cucks daily, for the last nearly 10 years of my life … I’m not sure how I feel about it? I mean I guess to an extent it feels like “appropriation” for the lack of better word. It’s odd to see something that was once so underground being thrown around on a daily basis in casual conversation, and in a way it feels a bit watered down now. But, since I’ve never actually been a cuck, just a mistress, it made me wonder what YOU GUYS actually thing? How do you feel about the word cuck being mainstream and thrown around willy nilly? What do you believe is the proper definition of cuck? Do you feel the word has lost a bit of its “punch” now that it is being used so losely? Send me a text, let me know. Let’s have a conversation about this together.
Also, check out my FREE MP3 discussing this topic!